One should not assume that 'reality' transcends the need for a clear definition.

It's very difficult for people to come to an agreement regarding just how subjective reality is.  One person will say something that misleads another person into believing that the first person thinks that he can walk through a wall if he thinks he can, to which the first person responds in a number of ways, none of which will likely resolve the core misunderstanding..  (repeat chorus indefinitely.)   Why is it so easy not to agree on the fundamental nature of reality?  I can think of a few reasons..
A person may or may not realize that the things he holds to be self-evident, absolute truths actually rely on a number of beliefs that rely on other beliefs that rely on other beliefs, all the way down to raw perception and unprovable axioms..  The only thing that you can be ABSOLUTELY sure even EXISTS is yourself.  You can't be wrong in believing you exist because if you don't exist then neither does said belief.  But everything else involves some kind of assumption, such as the assumption that the universe isn't just an aspect of your unconscious mind that presents itself to you by means that you know of as your five senses.  Unfortunately saying anything to the effect of this realization of uncertainty will cause some less enlightened individual to label you a solipsist (i.e. one who believes that nothing in the universe exists but himself) and then to try to disprove you by examples of things that exist outside of your mind according to his own beliefs, not realizing that it's more of an agnostic position than solipsistic, or that the idea only makes sense to the person pondering it.
The exact relationship between our perceptions of reality and reality itself is uncertain.
And since not everyone understands this, a person may have a very shaky definition of 'objective reality'--and even someone who has realized it operates for all practical purposes under the paradigm that things as we perceive them exist the same irrespectively of our perception of them.
And there is a problem with this.  In a sense, 'objective reality' cannot possibly mean what it implies.  (sort of like 'infinity', but that's another matter..)  The problem is that 'things' as such always boil down to ideas.  Everything we know of or can imagine is but an idea that makes sense only within the context of our cognitive structure.   Presumeably the 'objective universe' doesn't exist as a set of ideas, so there really is no direct relationship between any given thing you consider to be objectively there, or objectively true (more on that later), and what really exists outside your consciousness if anything.  Everything is interrelated; the UNIverse exists as just that: a singularity.  Objectification into various objects and laws and such is arbitrary and subjective.
Objectivity is ultimately an idea representing the set of all ideas you're not necessarily aware of.  (Yet obviously if you're not aware of it then it's not an idea. And if you try to think of an example of particular thing existing outside your consciousness, it's automatically an idea and hence subjective on a certain level) When we think of an objective universe existing independently of our perception, we can only think of it in terms of our own consciousness and we project some kind of imagined thing or things, ultimately an idea or ideas, into that imagined state of being--while at the same time we assume that it doesn't exist as a state of ideas.
 We extrapolate based on our experience that we may in the future become aware, by perception, of things we're not currently aware of .. and because our perception of a thing is supposedly incidental within our conceptual framework of how things work and because things that we perceive seem to cohere internally afterward (which suggests a definite correspondance between our incidental perceptions of things and an outside information source, but by no means an equal nature), we naturally think of these things as originating externally to our consciousness from an entire realm of objects existing just as we think of them but only with many many more things.. calling that particular projection objective reality.. while it's also possible in the context of debate for a person to have a more bleak view of 'objective reality' because he *thinks of* thinking of such projections more than the next person and therefore restricts more of that projection to the category of subjective ideas while lending the objective to the unknown on a more fundamental level.
Obviously it's a lot easier for people to have these discrepencies than it is for them to understand them as such and that's why the argument is always such a mess..
One avenue that may branch to or from the objective/subjective circle-jerk is the matter of 'truth'.. what is truth, and exactly how absolute is it?  I think this deserves a page of its own..

Richard A. Nichols III

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